Dr. Bob Rubel and M. Jen Fairfield

Professional Bios

M. Jen Fairfield and Robert J. Rubel, PhD (Dr. Bob) have partnered for presentations at leather and BDSM conferences both in the United States and Canada. Together, they host a free bimonthly live webcast discussion (“Evening with Jen and Dr. Bob") that focuses on issues germane to nontraditional relationships, focusing on power exchange, BDSM, and multi-partner relationships  Jen and Dr. Bob bring their strengths (and weaknesses) to their work--sharing their life experience and their passion for education with the community, both kinky and vanilla.

Dr. Bob Rubel, author, educator, and photographer, is an educational sociologist and researcher by training. Recipient of the 2008 Pantheon of Leather's Community Choice Award (Man), Dr. Bob has been involved in the BDSM and total power exchange (TPE) scene since the summer of 2001, throwing himself into the literature of the field as though it were an academic study. He has multiple books in print as well as educational DVDs on fire play and beginning impact play. He presents and judges at weekend kink conferences throughout the year.

M. Jen Fairfield has extensive experience managing authority-imbalanced relationships. Her D/s experience began in 1992 as she dipped her toe in the water with a nurturing Mommy/boy relationship. Seeking more control than that type of relationship could offer, Jen ended it and spent the following year engaged in in introspection and personal clarification—after which she entered a full-blown D/s relationship that she ran for another 16 years.

Jen found her home in the leather culture in the fall of 2010 and has embraced her calling as a leatherwoman—to live a highly focused life with a partner (or partners) who are willing to hold themselves to exacting moral and ethical standards.

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Publications

Forthcoming Books by M. Jen Fairfield and Dr. Bob Rubel: 

•  The Hows and Whys of BDSM: An Easy Guide to Play, Parties, and Kinky Relationships
•  How to Write Effective Protocols that Serve You in a Structured BDSM Relationship.
•  Power-Imbalanced Relationships – O/p, M/s, D/s, TPE, IE 

Published Books:

Mastery/slave Mastery: Updated handbook of concepts, approaches, and practices

BDSM Mastery—Relationships: A guide to creating mindful relationships 

BDSM Mastery - Basics: Your Guide to Play, Parties, and Scene Protocols - New! Dec. 2014

Squirms, Screams and Squirts: Going from Great Sex to Extraordinary Sex(a Playboy Valentine's Day pick)

Squirms, Screams and Squirts: The Workbook

Screams of Pleasure: Guide for ExtraordinarySex for Those with Erectile Dysfunction

Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice

Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 The Advanced Course (paperback)

Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 The Advanced Course (Kindle)

Master/slave Relations: Solutions Living in Harmony

Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony

The Art of Slavery

Age Play

Playing with Disabilities

Protocols: Handbook for the Female Slave

Protocol Handbook for the Leather Slave: Theory and Practice

Protocols: A Variety of Views

Rope, Bondage and Power

SMTech #6 - Fire Play: A Safety Training Course (Female model)

SMTech #7 - Fire Play: A Safety Training Course (Male model)

SMTech #8 - Impact Play 101: Building Your Skills (Female model)

SMTech #9 - Impact Play 101: Building Your Skills (Male model)

Wholes: The Photographic Erotic Art of Robert J. Rubel, PhD

Parts: The Photographic Erotic Art of Robert J. Rubel, PhD  

DVDs

SMTech #6 - Fire Play: A Safety Course (Female model) - DVD

SMTech #7 - Fire Play: A Safety Course (Male model) - DVD

 SMTech #8 - Impact Play 101: Building Your Skills (Female model) - DVD

 SMTech #9 - Impact Play 101: Building Your Skills (Male model) - DVD 

Online Courses and Events with M. Jen Fairfield and Dr. Bob Rubel

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